Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Today's teenagers

My 16 Year old son Gio
The recent viral video "Facebook Parenting: For troubled teenagers" and all of the responses make me wonder about today's teenagers.

As the mother of a 16 year old son, I struggle with him daily.  Let me preface this by saying, overall he's a good kid.  I'm not saying that because he's my son, but I say this knowing all of the things kids could be doing and knowing what I was doing at his age.....well, like I said...he's a good kid! But I find him to be disrespectful, and is it me or are teens just more disrespectful to their parents now-a-days?  Are they ungrateful?  Or is this a reflection of our parenting?  Should I have deprived him more?  Maybe I gave him to much?  I don't know.

Maybe this is something that is not uncommon but I'm just experiencing it myself now that I have a teenager. Its just that this is not something that I would have gotten away with.  Or maybe I'm just old school, but this sh*t is not tolerated in latino households!    Hopefully its just a phase and I raise a respectful young man.  In the meantime, I will throw my chancleta or give him a cokotaso when he gets out of line!  

Check out the video that I mentioned above HERE.

Well, until next time Mi Gente!

Ciao,

Londi
xoxoxo


3 comments:

  1. As the first to go through this in our family.... Not even mom,( we know why) went through this teenage crap. I will say ITS HARD!! I will say this sense of entitlement the kids have and the way they respond is usually a reflection on the way we chose to raise them. Were not our parents.

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  2. I think my two are a little too spoiled. Hopefully it will get better for us. I also believe that back in the day parents were allowed to be parents . I remembers mother beating me in the street and not a sole said a thing but if we do that now acs will be knocking on our door

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  3. I am Londi & Lala's mom and I assure you they did everything in the house they had to do and more, I am super proud of my kids today, they are responsible adults with good jobs & careers. This shit was not put up with in the house. Although I was the easy going parent the other was not, Balance is very important in a home, You know good cop bad cop. A good ass kicking goes a long way sometimes

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